As writers I’m sure you spend a lot of time balancing family, work, and writing. I know I often feel like a high-wire act edging my way across with a balancing bar in hand and praying there’s a safety net below.
I was taking a break the other day–no family, no work, no writing– and I stumbled upon a great article about philosophy. Remember that first-year course in college when you learned about existentialism and then had to figure out how to pronounce it?
I had the idea that if I re-visited some of those master thinkers I might figure out how to do a better balancing act. I’m not sure if it will work, but I’ll share what I came up with and you can let me know.
Whenever you make a moral decision, test it by asking what would happen if everyone did what you’re considering doing.
Simple Writer Me: What would happen if everybody failed to meet a deadline? The consequences of that sent me back to my re-write almost immediately.
People (writers included) often base their decisions on how past events have linked up, one causing the other. They believe that if something happened a certain way in the past it will happen that same way the next time. However, Hume maintained that’s not necessarily true. Not all balls thrown will break the neighbors window.
Descartes: “I think, therefore, I am.”
You can’t prove that you exist by simply touching your head. You have to think about who you are to truly be alive.
Simple Writer Me: Writing is thinking. When I’m writing I’m truly alive. I wrote a chapter.
Find a half-way point between two vices to be truly balanced.
Simple Writer Me: I can write and forget work and family or I can write for a certain number of hours, take care of work for a certain number of hours, and enjoy my family for a certain number of hours. I created a schedule that is flexible , but fair and balanced.
My scheduling effort satisfied Kant’s Categorical Imperative (If everybody had a fair and flexible schedule, the world would be so much easier to live in.) It followed Hume’s Causation (Just because other schedules haven’t worked . . . ), and was in line with Descartes’ idea too because I had a lot of thinking about who I was– writer, wife, mother, daughter, forced laborer–while I created that thing!
I’m feeling very virtuous and much more balanced. I’m also a bit depressed by these images. Here’s some flowers to brighten my philosophy and the day.
Helpful? What other philosophy might help us meet the challenges of writing and everyday life?
Knowing when to say when! If you're staring at a blinking cursor, go clean the bathroom. If you get a great idea while scrubbing the grout with an old toothbrush, run and make those notes.
Clara Gillow Clark says
I agree with what Tricia wrote!
The flowers are a brilliant touch like an awakening, the blossoming of our potential.
Tricia J. O'Brien says
Simple Writer You is a pretty good philosopher! I really like the notion that I am truly alive when I write. Yes, that's a keeper.