Wow, ladies (and gentleman), I can’t possibly pick between your amazing stories. I will have to let Lady Luck decide for me (my oldest son is in possession of an eight-sided-dice)! Thank you all for sharing and to C. Lee for hosting and asking such a wonderful question!
And the winner is … Ann Best!
Ann, I will email you shortly to get your physical address. Thanks again!
Susan and I met over at YALitChat and have been sharing some emails and discussions. Her book caught my attention and her debutness qualified her for this series. Check out how to win her book below.
I don’t have to sneak my notes anymore, which is too bad. I write from the Chicago suburbs with my three boys, two cats, and one husband. Which, it turns out, is exactly as a much as I can handle.
Next week Carla Mooney will join us to talk about her book and share her debut experience.
Thank you for the comment on my blog, much appreciated. Here's hoping we can get to Sundance, it would be an unforgettable experience! I envy your friends and well done to them!
Hurricane Rita provided me, along with so many others, one challange after another. But we grow by walking against the wind.
Great interview, Roland
My dilemma…I can't believe I'm sharing it with people I don't know-I am a sexual abuse surrivor. I left my family in my twenties and thought, that I would never look back. My dilemmas do I prosecute the attacker( considering he's my own father?)I didn't. My other dilemma was forgiving not what he did, but letting go of the anger. I had to do this for me, so I could heal.
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I have a teenage stepdaughter that gives me plenty of dilemmas to wade through. I constantly have to choose to just love her, despite our differences. And you bet, I'll be writing a story someday based on my experiences – with names changed, of course!
Susan if I don't win a copy, I plan to buy one!
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When I got pregnant with my oldest, I had to drop out of college because I had a lot of medical complications and a job we needed to pay the bills.
But I'd promised my mom I'd finish. When she died a couple of years later, I went back. It took me a lot of years (I couldn't quit managing the dry cleaners), but I finished my degree.
Wow. I can't possibly pick among these amazing stories. I'll have to come up with some random way to select a winner. Thank you all for sharing your dilmmas and choices!
I agree, Susan Kaye Quinn's advice is as sound as it gets.
A dilemma I faced was deciding whether or not to leave the PhD History program to become certified to teach high school. I realized the only thing standing in the way of choosing a profession that would make me happier was my ego (and worrying what other people thought of me).
I'm sure glad I don't have to choose which dilemma is the winning one. Aren't we resilent as humans making such difficult choices? Thanks for stopping in and leaving your excellent comments.
We all face so many dilemmas every day. One of mine was to choose between staying in special education or returning to the classroom to teach. I love both, and they both have pros and cons. I ended up back in the classroom because I have the opportunity to reach more kids, but one of the best things about teaching is I can change my mind again next year 🙂
I'd love to win a copy of the book! So here's my real-life dilemma…
My younger 59-year-old recovering alcoholic brother was homeless, partly because of the choices he'd made and partly because of our mother's enabling behavior. I'd had a difficult time with him (and was angry at him and our mother), and was a bit scared of him, even though he was now sober. I didn't really want to take him into my duplex (where I took care of my disabled daughter); but I promised our recently deceased mother I'd help him. So I let him move in. He wouldn't do anything. Wouldn't move. But finally I got a "miracle": found a wonderful place for him. It was move there or go back to the homeless shelter. It moved there, and now thanks me for saving his life. It hadn't been easy, but I was glad I'd taken him in.
Oh! I've got one. I found out I was pregnant at 16. I had to chose life and put mine on hold, or chose something else and continuing living as a normal teen. I chose life and haven't regretted it since. It was hard, make no mistake, but I've love each moment of the past twelve years with my daughter, no matter how hard it's been.
~JD